She-Spy ... Private EYE

It's probably acceptable to say that at one time or another you've caught yourself lurking on an Instagram page or two ... (Or three or more whatever) ... BUT when women feel that itch ... That intuition ... That something isn't right in our relationship, then it literally becomes our part time job to get to the bottom of whatever doubts we have. 

You can call it women's intuition, I call it a sixth sense. Not only can we see, smell, touch, hear, and taste ... We can also FEEL !! Not tangibly feel (like skin to skin or skin to an object) but feel in the pit of our stomachs that something foul is going on. 

The internet and social media have made it so much easier to snoop on our men, his friends, their girlfriends, and her family. It's like a domino effect. Especially with Instagram. 

Correct me if I'm wrong... 

You see someone comment heart eyes under your significant others picture... You click their name now your scrollin THAT page ... You find a group pic of them and their friends ... So you click one of THOSE names ... Next thing you know it's an hour and a half later and you now are liking their high school sweethearts best friends great grandmas 85th birthday picture. 

See back in her day (the 85 year old previously mentioned), if her husband was steppin out on her then it was very hush hush. He may have had a whole other family on the other side of town but it was a town secret. Not now honey. 

Today, in 2014... Us women we want ALLLLL the dirt. We wanna know who the bitch is, where she live, who her baby daddy is, if he in jail or not, where she went to school at, who her prom date was, and so on, and so forth. And baby it's not hard to find out. 

Women of this generation can find a tic on a wildebeest once she gets her girl on board. And this isn't limited to one ethnicity. This is ANY group of women. We have outgrown our meek demeanors of our ancestors and gained the boisterous headstrong attitude of this new millennium. 

And pleaaaase honey don't piss us off because we can find what we need to know sooner than later. Nobody texts, google searches, and map quests faster than a scorned woman. Trust me, if I don't know something or someone, I know somebody who does !!  

We don't need the cape and magnifying glass, cause once I give my girls the go ahead I'm goin get screen shots, addresses, texts and whatever else I need before I even know I need it. Believe me. Been there. Done that. Got three t shirts. Burned them in a camp fire !! 

Although I can turn into Inspector Gadget in a blink of an eye, I have learned in my experiences that sometimes when you go digging, you don't always find gold. Information that you find may be more hurtful than you imagined and then your world is turn upside down. Then your there trying to pick up the pieces to a puzzle you thought you knew like the back of your hand. Something's are better left in the dark, but if you are losing sleep (and weight) over something or someone dig until you feel like you've got the answers you need then let it go. 

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