Moment of clarity ...

There's more to life than what's tangible ... You know ... Like what you can physically touch ... Being able to satisfy all 5 senses and then some is where I desire to be in the long haul. Let me elaborate. I need to wake up everyday and see my daughters smile, hear her laugh, touch the man of my dreams, breathe in the sea breeze, taste the sweet flavors of tropic fruit, say what I want, be who I want, live comfortably, to my standards, and be care free !! I intend to do whatever it is possible to get there. I just want to be able to genuinely smile, laugh without holding back, and be loved for me and not what I can do. 

Knowing what's good for the moment and what's good for your soul is distinguished only when you've reached the very end of your rope and you have no where else to go but up. Sometimes you have to be at your lowest point before you can begin to see things for what they truly are. When the chips fall, pay attention to who's there helping you pick them up, both literal and metaphorical. I find most of the time when shit really matters only a few people sit in my corner just waiting for when I call. And I love each and every one of them for it. Cherish those people, make sure they know they're appreciated because fuck tomorrow, today isn't promised. 

Trial, error, and death are the only thing guaranteed in life. Until you get to a satisfying plateau, there will be a series of ups and downs. You just have to remember when you hit a low to look forward to the greater good that is about to emerge from the shitty situation that you've found yourself in. Dust yourself the fuck off and use what you still have to start over.

You'll find yourself outgrowing people. And that's fine. Do not let them make you feel bad for shedding old skin to grow. Life is about growth.You can't continue to do the same things but expect different results. 

People will place themselves in your life strategically to reap YOUR benefits. Don't let those people bleed your dry. Don't let people distract you from or discourage you from finishing the race to finish line. 

Anyone in your world who shows any doubt, any envy, any jealousy, any sense of spite ... Cut them off immediately. Those will be the people who will despise you for your growth but have their handout for the fruits of your labors. Surround yourself with positive people with goals that surpass yours. Trust me, that may sound crazy, but you'll never make it where you want to be if you don't meet people that have already been there. Drink from the knowledge that drips off of them!! Collect the jewels that they drop and learn from every mistake that they've made. 

Look for my official website, featured interviews, and sponsorship opportunities.

If interested in being a part in anyway of the come up and for t shirt sales EMAIL ME AT WENEEDNOK@gmail.com !! 

Follow my IG @BlondeGirlNok

Like my FB fan page BlondeGirl Nok

Twitter @BlondeGirlNok